My Stalker Is Acting Out Again

By Loudoun Insider

Bullet Box Monk is going off the deep end again about me.  But he and his fellow creeps have also decided to make attacking Vincent (TC himself) part of the deal this time for daring to tolerate free speech on this site.  In fact, Bullet Box has told people that he is working at the highest levels of state government to shut down Too Conservative.  We’ll see how that works out.

I explained the basics in this post a few months ago.  Followed up by this one asking him to try to quit me.  I explained the meaning of his new nickname in this post about all the rage in the LCRC.  He shut up for a while but is now back in full blown OCD mode about me.  He even changed out his formerly creepy serial killer-style sidebar about me on his blog with a new one that is even more off the wall.

Here’s the old one:                                                         Here is the latest:











I’m still trying to figure out how I sacrificed anything and I did nothing out of the ordinary on October 19th.  Bullet Box adopted the Loudmouthed Incitor (Inciter spelled wrong of course) nickname for me a while back, so I’ve responded in kind with Bullet Box, which is much more accurate and appropriate.

Bullet Box got on a tangent back then that somehow Sheriff Mike Chapman was involved in “electoral fusion”, which Bullet Box declared was illegal in Virginia.  The whole “darling” thing is also all too predictable from these creeps, who make trying to screw with people’s marriages part of their tactics.

So I guess he’s accusing me of breaking the law.  If I broke the electoral fusion law he should either file a criminal complaint with his buddy Jim Plowman or shut the f*#$ up and take this degenerate fixated cheesy artwork down.  Come on, you creepy bastard, find a new fixation and get over me.  And quit your vendetta against Vincent, who has done more in politics just out of college than you and your cohorts have ever done in the entirety of your miserable lives.


  • Loudoun Insider says:

    Here’s his typical response:

    “Oh boy I just won another bet with another post about me at TooLiberal because he is so jealous of what I am”

    Let me make this perfectly clear, I don’t go out of my way to start this crap with him. He is only important in his own mind. He is constantly starting crap and it’s to the point that I do actually wonder if he has one of those serial killer style photo montages of me in his rathole. The sidebars are just way beyond normal and absolutely indicative of a deep seated fixation on another blogger. Bizarre.

  • Dan says:

    LI, I understand you are annoyed at the twerp. He is certainly over the top annoying. But he is truly pathetic and not worth the time to worry about him. His blog has few readers and he is barely literate. He has delusions of grandeur. He believes he is some sort of political powerhouse who has significance in county and state politics. His lack of self awareness is breathtaking.

    Frankly, the guy has provided some great comic relief. His posts about all the truly important things he has handled and the “situations” he dealt with as sergeant-at-arms and his grand exalted vice chairmanship have been good for more than a few laughs over the years.

    Do as you please, but ignoring him makes the most sense. You are dealing with someone with the emotional maturity of a thirteen year old who has an amazingly exaggerated idea of his own importance. The guy is more to be pitied than anything else. He is not bright enough to be able to see how truly silly he sounds to others.

    Just let it go and thank God you aren’t him.

  • liz says:

    I disagree, the man’s making death threats. That’s not something you can just ignore.

  • Loudoun Insider says:

    I don;t take them as death threats, but they’re creepy nevertheless. I’ve never had to deal with a male stalker before, so this is an interesting situation.

    Dan, I ignore some of it but he never lets up and I am just not the type to let his kind of BS go unanswered. Especially when he is making accusations that I somehow broke some election law. It’s bizarre and very abnormal.

  • Erika M. Cotti says:


    I am partially at fault for some of this recent animus between the two of you. Earlier today I privately apologized to you and I will publicly say I am sorry. I had casually mentioned a few things to BPM and I never expect he would use portions of our conversation as ammunition to fuel the fire between you.

    I am friends with each of you and I only wished and hoped that “we” could all return to the camaraderie of 2006/2007. You two were thick as thieves back then and I was only lucky enough to tag along. I wish you two would heal the old wounds and get on more friendly terms – but I don’t see that happening….ever.

    I do agree with you LI. I have rarely seen you proactively start “issues” with BPM on this or other blogs. Your participation has strictly been in defense of. Conversely I have noted that it appears BPM has instigated (I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt and say some of it was unintentional) several dust ups.

    Again I honestly wish the two of you would just mend fences, because when you two work together on the same side of issues, you all are a force to be reckon with.

  • Dan says:

    Liz, I don’t think credible threats of violence should be ignored. It’s just that I don’t think that is what we are dealing with here.

    Monk has a long and well documented history as a blow hard. The guy not only lacks credibility, but the phony tough guy thing has been part of his tired routine forever. I wouldn’t laugh off a credible threat. But in Monk’s case, most objective observers know he is nothing more than a loud mouthed fool and that this, like most of what Monk says, should be laughed at and dismissed.

    The guy is pathetic. On some level I truly pity him. It would just be nice if for just a moment he could be able to see himself as others see him. Then., knowing what a joke he is to others, he might be properly embarrassed and just shut up.

  • Loudoun Insider says:

    Erika, this has been going on for much longer than the most recent “can of whoop ass” he thought he had in you. The last time I even attempted to mend fences with him he sent the email around saying that I was crawling back to him or some sort of bullshit. He’s far too gone to be rescued from his narcissistic fixated state.

    Dan, the pseudo-tough guy thing runs rampant in the LCRC. Their bark is way worse than their bite.

  • Dan says:

    LI, I still say your best bet is to ignore him completely. He loves a post like this one. It feeds his sense of self importance. Any response you make to him in other venues has the same effect.

    It is very much like when you have a troll persistently commenting on a blog. If you feed the troll they keep commenting. So, you don’t feed the troll. Monk is a troll. Don’t feed him.

    Perhaps a more apt analogy would be a two year old acting out to get attention. You ignore the two year old’s bad behavior. You don’t feed into it.

    There is nothing to be gained by responding to this nitwit. Ignore him. People understand what he is so you don’t need to respond to what others know is pure horse manure. And those who use this tool (and he is a major tool) for their own purposes won’t care one way or the other.

    Have the self discipline to ignore the gnat that is buzzing around. Don’t make the gnat anything larger than what it is. An insignificant little speck.

  • Loudoun Insider says:

    But Dan, he’s working with the highest ranking officials in the state to shut down this blog, what am I supposed to do???

    (sarcasm alert, if it isn’t obvious)

  • BlackOut says:

    Monk has obvious had too much time on his hands since he stopped being a stuntman on the TV show 24. He was a perfect match based on his past exploits of saving the world from terror. I am still amazed at all the things he’s done in his life.

    Either that or his stunt work on the water boarding scenes really went to his head.

  • Dan says:

    See, you nailed it! In his mind he has access to the “highest ranking officials in the state” and they listen to his every concern and jump to action at his beck and call. He is completely delusional at worst and completely full of sh*t at best. Why would you ever let a guy like that (a total f’ing joke of a man) get under your skin.

    Monk is laughable. So, laugh at him. But don’t take him seriously. And certainly don’t ever be bothered by him. That would be a total waste of your time.

  • Loudoun Insider says:

    Believe me this is all quite hilarious to me! I do enjoy putting him in his place and exposing him for the wannabe that he is after he makes stupid remark after stupid remark about me, Vincent and this site.

  • NoVA Scout says:

    LI – how can anyone “shut down” a blog? The only person who could shut down this one is TC. It’s his right and his prerogative. No one else has that authority. It isn’t a realistic concern that anyone could prevail upon governmental authorities to terminate a website, as long as it doesn’t involve illegal activities.

  • Loudoun Insider says:

    These people have now taken to trying to hurt Vincent’s business to get back at me (after trying to hurt my business as well). They think they have enough influence to force the Governor to call Vincent on the carpet and force my removal or the closing of the blog. It’s more delusion. Of course Vincent operates at a much higher level than these cretins, and of course Vincent and especially the Governor could care less about two bit Loudoun County political hacks.

  • NoVA Scout says:

    My theory is that young TC essentially can name the tune of anything he wants to be involved in, and can pretty much ignore any low-level stupidity he wants to ignore, even in the political field. He’s a bright, clear-headed guy, and a bunch of disgruntled low-level pols can’t put him in a headlock over anything.

  • Loudoun Insider says:

    Agreed, Scout. These hacks threatening Vincent is laughable.

  • I agree with Dan – just ignore BPM.

    Everyone else does.

  • Thanks for the lag time between your fixation on me. It was getting harder to actually get any takers on how soon a BPM fixated post would appear!
    The period since the last one was good.
    Now, if you could wait a month or two before the next one, I’d appreciate it. I can probably find takers …..again.

  • Dan says:



    IGNORE IT!!!

  • Loudoun Insider says:

    So hilarious coming from the idiot with the rotating sidebars all about me. Moron.

  • Fred says:

    Perhaps in 2012 LI and BPM could resolve to “wag more and bark less” about each other. The blogosphere would be a better place. Happy New Year fellas.

  • Loudoun Insider says:

    It’s all up to him, Fred since I never start this crap.

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